The pressure is building for us guys. Valentine’s Day is here. The truth is, we could care less about this day, but for some reason – only God knows why – and SHE is not sharing – women find this day to be important. Maybe it is their innate need to be wanted and appreciated. Whatever the reason, with the right attitude, we can benefit as much as they, and make it an unforgettable experience.
Invite your lady to your house for the evening. Tell her to dress up. For dinner, I suggest a Filet Mignon. Go to Allenbrothers.com and order their steak. Many of the top steak restaurants order from Allen Brothers. It will be delivered in dry ice and you will get full and EASY instructions on how to prepare it – just choose your favorite method ( I prefer broiling). Get some long green beans from the grocery store. Prepare about 12 of them. For added freshness, put them in a pot with water and ice cubes for about 10 minutes. Then, place the beans in a pan with a little olive oil, add salt and pepper; place on top of your stove for about 10-15 minutes on medium heat. Prepare a salad – a little romaine lettuce, spinach leaves, cherry tomatoes, red cabbage, and your favorite Italian dressing. A nice, easy red wine is a must. Try Santa Emma, 1998, a Chilean Merlot that is light and mellow. On your table is a lit candle and a vase of roses. Enjoy.
After dinner, the night is just beginning – but she does not know it! Tell her that you have a little surprise. Lead her to your bathroom, and prepare her a beautifully scented bubble bath, lots of lit candles, soft, romantic music, and a fresh glass of wine. Tell her you want her to relax and unwind, and enjoy herself with her thoughts. Leave her alone for about 30 minutes. When she can’t stand being alone anymore, help her out of the tub and dry her off. As she walks into your bedroom, she sees lingerie on your bed – you were at Victoria’s Secret the day before ! You know her well enough that you choose the absolute perfect thing. Admire her as she puts it on, then walk back to your living room. Have some fine chocolate for dessert, taking small bites and relishing the mixture of wine and chocolate. Ask her to walk around and show off. Soak her in. She will love the tension and excitement that is building. Draw it out, draw it out !
After a while, head back to your bedroom and tell her you want to give her a massage. You can buy music CD’s that are specifically produced for massage sessions, or play the Zen music station from your satellite provider. Make sure you have a lot of lit candles, and of course, massage oils. KamaSutra.com offers a nice variety pack.You may know absolutely nothing about massage, but at this point, it won’t matter to her. Go slow and use your imagination. You have created an inviting and sensual atmosphere the whole evening, without ever leaving your home.
Happy Valentine’s Day